Bullying

Bullying, name-calling, and put-downs remain pervasive challenges in schools across the country—whether in person or online. As we move through 2025, shifting social dynamics, digital connectivity, and evolving school policies demand fresh understanding and strategies. This article offers parents current insights, best practices, and actionable steps to support children who face verbal or relational aggression at school or online.

Understanding the Scope in 2025

Prevalence and Patterns

Verbal and relational bullying—name-calling, insults, rumors, exclusion—are among the most common forms reported by students. According to the Anti-Bullying Alliance, about 40% of young people experienced bullying within the past year, with name-calling being the most frequent form (around 26%) anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk. In U.S. schools, data from the National Center for Education Statistics shows that in 2021–22, roughly 19 percent of students ages 12–18 reported being bullied at school.

The digital realm has only expanded the reach. As of 2025, about 26.5% of American adolescents report experiencing cyberbullying within the prior 30 days. Lifetime online harassment increases that share further: BroadbandSearch notes that lifetime cyberbullying victimization in the U.S. has risen to 58.2% BroadbandSearch.

Equally concerning, research linking bullying to mental health outcomes continues to grow. A large-scale study of over 95,000 students found that even mild bullying correlates with significantly elevated risk of anxiety, depression, poor sleep, PTSD symptoms, and behavioral issues—and the risk multiplies with severity arXiv.

Who Is At Risk—and Why It Matters

Certain

Children can be cruel, and it is not uncommon for grade school students to come home in tears after someone calls them names on the bus ride home. Unfortunately, many parents do not understand the potentially damaging effects of bullying not only on a child’s confidence and self-esteem but also on his academic performance.

Shocking Statistics About Bullying

According to StopBullying.gov, a website managed by the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services, nearly 50% of students in grades 4 through 12 experienced bullying within a given month, and more than 70% of students admit to having seen bullying occur in their school. Verbal and social bullying are the two most common types, including things like name-calling, teasing, spreading rumors, stealing belongings, sexual comments and gestures, or physical violence. Physical bullying happens less often than social bullying, and cyberbullying, though it is becoming increasingly prevalent, is still less common.

While many people assume that a little bit of bullying is harmless – it may even be helpful for the child to teach them how to stick up for themselves. In reality, however, an estimated 160,000 children miss school on any given day due to fear of bullying by other students. Every day, more than 280,000 students are physically attacked in schools, and one out of ten students who drop out of school mentions repeated bullying as a factor. Bullying can have a serious impact on a child’s educational experience, and not just by causing him or

The start of a school year can be an exciting time for kids as new teachers and friends broaden their world in many positive ways. However, the presence of a bully in that world can transform what should be a constructive learning environment into a scary place for kids. With many disturbing reports of suicides recently as a result of bullying, it is important for parents to acknowledge the potential for bullying and take steps toward prevention or dealing with a situation that already exists. Fortunately, there are many positive actions parents can take to protect their children from bullying.

Types of Bullying

The Mayo Clinic lists a number of different types of bullying children might experience today, including the following:

• Physical Bullying – hitting, kicking or other types of aggressive physical behavior
• Verbal Bullying – incessant teasing, name calling, spreading rumors or racial slurs
• Cyber Bullying – tormenting another child through cell phones or the Internet

Children may be bullied through just one of these channels, or a combination. The dangers of cyber bullying are particularly pronounced, since this type of bullying can invade the privacy and safety of the home environment. While bullying that is done at school can be left there at the end of the school day, cyber bullying can become incessant. Psychologists believe that is one of the reasons why cyber bullying has resulted in

States across the country are putting anti-bullying laws in place, many in response to tragic circumstances that resulted from excessive bullying within their schools. While some already have laws on the books that require schools to comply, others are continuing to fight the battle to transform anti-bullying from school policy to state law. Are laws against bullying essential, and will they effectively protect the victims? We'll take a look at some of the states grappling with this challenge to find out.

This video describes anti-bullying laws in general.

Laws in Place in Massachusetts

Last May, the governor of Massachusetts, Deval Patrick, signed a piece of anti-bullying legislation into law. The Massachusetts Bullying Prevention Law required all public schools to file anti-bullying plans with the state Department of Elementary and Secondary Education by the end of last year, according to a report in the Holbrook Sun . The schools' plans needed to include the following:

• Clear descriptions of what bullying looks like
• Statements prohibiting bullying in schools
• Procedures for school staff to report incidents of bullying
• Guidelines to promptly respond to reports of bullying
• Guidelines to ensure the safety of victims
• Procedures to notify parents and guardians of the victim or perpetrator
• Guidelines to report incidents of bullying to law enforcement officials
• Provisions for anonymous reports
• Professional development to build awareness and skills for dealing with bullying
• Disciplinary actions for perpetrators of bullying

The plan should also have

While campus violence and bullying have been heated topics in recent years, the wake of a young teen's suicide, allegedly prompted by aggressive bullies, is forcing community members to reexamine the responsibility of schools in the fight against bullies.

Should Schools Pay the Price for Bullying?

In the most recent high school tragedy, 15-year-old Phoebe Prince sadly ended her own life after nine teenagers allegedly harassed and bullied the young girl. According to Slate News, District Attorney Elizabeth Scheibel has filed charges against the nine alleged bullies, further asserting that Phoebe Prince endured three months of extreme bullying under the awareness of some school leaders. According to Scheibel, “The investigation has revealed that certain faculty, staff, and administrators of the high school also were alerted to the harassment of Phoebe Prince before her death.”

This video describes how parents of bullies may be liable.

In fact, supporting these claims are reports from Phoebe’s mother, as well as fellow students, who reported obvious struggles endured by the teen. For example, Phoebe’s mother was so concerned about her daughter’s depression at school that she contacted school officials on multiple occasions, asking about whether or not students were making threats and attacks against her daughter. Furthermore, some students reported seeing Phoebe crying in the hallway outside her classroom, as well as crying in the nurse's office on the day she took her life.

However, many argue